Blame Me

from I Don't Do Humidity by Bathe Alone

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This song is a reflection on my response to being gaslit for calling out the truth during what would ultimately get the ball rolling on the divorce. I brought up my suspicion about some unacceptable behavior in my marriage, and my husband completely went off the deep end. He stormed out of the situation, and basically tried to make me feel crazy for interpreting his behavior as infidelity. I was trying to find a resolution, but he didn’t want to acknowledge his contribution to the problem. It felt like all of a sudden there were two teams, and I was outnumbered by one. We had gone to couples therapy, and the therapist even pointed out flaws in his thinking about this other woman. In this song, I’m looking back knowing my gut was right the whole time.

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Ain’t no room for three
What’s she doin’ here?
I liked it better when it was you and me
But you disappeared

Could call me a fool
I call you at midnight
She likes it better when she on her knees
Cause you come every time

I remember when you were on my team
There wasn’t any picking
But I chose you and she chose in between, oh
It’s too late for you to change your mind
Homewrecker’s fighting for her life
And you got a weak spot for listening to lies

You should blame me
You should blame me
You should blame me
You should blame me

Tear it all apart
You whole life and mine
You got it every way you want
Leave it all behind

Cyndi’s right again
I told her everything
She got it all from start to end
How she just a friend

I remember when you were on my team
There wasn’t any picking
But I chose you and she chose in between, oh
It’s too late for you to change your mind
Homewrecker’s fighting for her life
And you got a weak spot for listening to lies

You should blame me
You should blame me
Yeah, you should blame me
You should blame me

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from I Don't Do Humidity, track released January 26, 2024

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Bathe Alone Atlanta, Georgia

Bathe Alone is the dreampop solo project of multi-instrumentalist Bailey Crone based out of Atlanta, Georgia. Bailey plays everything from drums, guitar, bass to vocals on the project and aims to create songs you can "lay on the floor and stare at the ceiling to." ... more

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